“Britain, the only country in the world where at funerals the bereaved are congratulated on the degree to which they have so far supressed their emotions.”
I’m for letting it all hang out, and my upper lip is far from stiff, but actually, I doubt this is true.
Ours cannot be the only culture in which emotional restraint is seen as praiseworth, although I appreciate that the comparatively recent history of the relationship between imperialism and the British upper classes has a long half-life. Can anyone enlighten me about this? The Romans too valued stoicism and gravitas.
It’s also an out-of-date view, for many Brits, ask any FD or funeral celebrant!